I believe in second chances, but I don’t believe in third or fourth chances. I love talking through things, and I always want to make things work, if I really love someone, but eventually, if they can’t fix whatever is wrong, or if they’ve done something and then they continue to do it, they’re probably not going to change for anybody. You can’t change a person.
Just Google “Selena Gomez crying on stage,” and there are probably 15 videos of that. You are opening yourself up and talking to these people. Sometimes for me, it’s kids. When you lock eyes with someone and they’re just so enamored by you – and I almost feel like I’m gonna cry now – that is amazing, and that’s so powerful. I’ll do four shows in a row, but then the fourth night, I’ll catch someone completely, and we’re just connected. That’s the craziest feeling. I’m very lucky because of the kids. That’s their first concert. When they’re 25 and someone says, “Who was your first concert?,” they’re gonna say me. I don’t take that lightly. I think that’s an extreme honor. It’s really beautiful.